AGAPE

Love from a different source

THE COMMAND
A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another.
JOHN 13:34
BUT WHAT KIND OF LOVE?
THE DISTINCTION
Agape here is not merely human love intensified.
It is love whose source and pattern are in God.
Not reducible to natural affection —
and not sustained by it alone.
TWO SOURCES COMPARED
THE SOURCE DETERMINES THE LOVE
NATURAL LOVE
Affection
Attraction
Sincerity
Sentiment
Duty
Willpower
Mixed self-interest
AGAPE
Sourced in God
Self-giving
Seeks the good of the other
Covenantal
Not ruled by mood
Endures cost
Flows from divine life
TESTED IN COVENANT
THE MARRIAGE VOW — UNDER TWO SOURCES
VOW UNDER NATURAL LOVE
Promises much
Relies on feeling
Sustained by resolve
Collapses under strain
CANNOT BEAR COVENANT WEIGHT ALONE
VOW UNDER AGAPE
Rooted in a deeper source
Not dependent on mood
Sustained beyond emotion
Faithfulness through divine life
ENDURES BY DRAWING FROM A DEEPER SOURCE

Agape is not merely love intensified.

It is love whose source is in God.

And only what is sourced in Him
can do what He commands.

All quotations NKJV
THE SOURCE OF AGAPE
THE CHARACTER OF AGAPE
AGAPE IN COVENANT